Well, I'm getting divorced

danielruas

No no, not due to my cigar hobby but yeah I am indeed getting a divorce from my wife. Not looking for sympathy or anything just venting. We are on fairly good terms considering, no hatred on either side. But the next couple weeks should be a bit rough. I haven't told many people and felt like venting so here it is: What the f*ck is with women? Anyhow, smoke one for me gentlemen. But I guess this does mean more money for cigars, so I'll take the good with the bad.

kingjk729

So sorry to hear this brother .... my ex decided to call it quits back in May and I have been moving forward with life .... I actually just posted this information on the forums less than 2 weeks ago ..... From on brother to another be amicable as long as you need to and then work towards erasing all previous memories and future contact ..... my ex continues to contact me wanting to get together and hang and I'm like nope ..... I have deleted her, her friend, and her family from my phone contacts and social networking and was just recently promoted at work and will be moving to Vermont . There are better people and thing out there and I'm sure that you will come out of this better than you were previously ..... If you ever need anything please drop me a pm.

OchoZacho

Brothers, I feel for you both. I went through a divorce about 2 and a half years ago now. We went to Maui for my ex-wife's 30th B-Day and the day we got back, she asked me to move out. When I came back to get a few things later in the week, I found some clothes that weren't mine that confirmed my suspicions. We were only married for 13 months and I don't really regret any of it. In one foul swoop, I lost my house, my car, my wife, my job and all of my stuff, except for my clothes and my Harley. Not to pull the needle off the record but, for me I can say that I have gained the world because I did develop a relationship with Christ through this all. I am now happier than ever. I met and married the woman of my DREAMS, am back on top the latter I once was at my job, got a house full of stuff again and can't really complain. Life does get better, women come and go and things in life go different than we planned, but keep your heads up and hopeful. Let me know if there is ever anything that I can do for either one of you......Oh and in 2 weeks I am going with my new wife of almost a year, back to Maui to develop some new memories. It will be better than ever one day for you guy also.

james40

If you need anything, let me know. My wife is a family law paralegal in case you have questions. Hope things get better soon.

phobicsquirrel

could be worse, Mel Gibson lost 300 plus million in a divorce. Sorry to hear it didn't work out. Maybe it will be for the best, I wish you the best of luck.

Thewelder

Glad we could help you in your venting. Just remember one thing it gets better I can promise you that.

cabinetmaker

Get a good attorney and don't assume it'll stay amicable. I've never been divorced, but watched plenty of friends and they all said the same thing.

YankeeMan

The Sniper

jj20030

good luck danny hope everything runs smooth

Heavy

dowjr1

Brother it is bad now but it will get better! I went through one a while back and have since remarried and life is awesome. Been with the new gal for 5+ years and could not be happier. So if the chick is a loser and doesn't want to be your partner then f**k her and find some new. Dude, lots of great gals out there who will gladly and happily be the captain of your team.

danielruas

Thanks for the kind words guys. Fortunately we don't own any property, have any kids of have a great deal of money, so that's making things way easier. Since she's the one who wants out she agreed to leave the house we live in. As for material things I figure whatever we bought together she can have half or whatever keeps the peace. Thanks again guys, I'm getting through this better than I thought I ever would.

jj20030

phobicsquirrel

danielruas:

Thanks for the kind words guys. Fortunately we don't own any property, have any kids of have a great deal of money, so that's making things way easier. Since she's the one who wants out she agreed to leave the house we live in. As for material things I figure whatever we bought together she can have half or whatever keeps the peace. Thanks again guys, I'm getting through this better than I thought I ever would.

...well except the cigars right?

jsnake

Lasabar

Good luck to you bud... Hang in there

Rhamlin

In the words of Spanky. Ah women Phoey!( jk to our sisters here)

Diamondog

Gettin divorced myself....

kingjk729

Sorry to hear that Steve

roland_7707

Me too steve.

ENFIDL

Danny and Steve I'm really sorry to hear this brothers! That really sucks. Please don't hesitate to let me know if you guys need anything. Will be praying for you guys

roland_7707

No not me, just expressing that I was sorry to hear that from DD.

ENFIDL

roland_7707:

No not me, just expressing that I was sorry to hear that from DD.

Sorry Dane misunderstood that...woops lol sorry!

The Sniper

sol1821

camgfs

Must be the time of the year. My first wife left me between Xmas and New Years (10 or 11 years ago). The divorce came a couple years later. It's never easy and seems to happen a lot this time of year. Sorry to hear that so many of you are going trough this. Keep positive if you can.

KingoftheCove

The Sniper

The Sniper

danielruas

Thanks for all the kind words everyone. and for sniper and DD I feel your pain. Everything is going as well as it can be right now, I'm seeing this was the right choice although it wasn't my decision. I've just been thinking of the positive and not letting myself get down and have a pity party. I've had a great support system with friends and family, never had so many invites to go out for a beer in my life!