Sending good vibes and hopes for a speedy recovery yours and his way. That he's able to raise his arm already so soon out of surgery is an encouraging sign that his brain-motor skills connections may be okay.
I've been in your position. My mom had her first stroke at age 49 and her second and third at age 52. It's never easy and never predictable. Take it one day at a time. Do your best to love without judgement. Parents are pillars of strength and it's hard to accept anything that might change that. The aphasia (wrong words) should improve over time. PM me if you ever want to talk or use me as a sounding board. I made a lot of mistakes when my mom was going through this and carry quite a few regrets as well, which is ironic considering my questions led to the right diagnosis. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Hoping things are going well with your dad. ejgorman said above; never easy and never predictable, and that's exactly right. Mom lost her entire left side, a few months later she's back driving, playing piano etc., every event is different, I think. Help him keep a positive attitude, and you too!
Given the circumstances, that's great news! The important thing is that you know that he's still fully in there, personality and all, and it's just a matter of reestablishing his verbal connections. It sounds like he has a great deal of will to succeed and I'm sure that having family around is the best motivation he can have at this point.
After a rough travel day yesterday, I am back in New Mexico. Things are still going fairly well with my dad's recovery. He's doing a full regimen of PT/OT/Speech therapy in a rehab hospital. He's particularly excited about OT, probably because the therapist is a rather dashing young lady... They say the average stay for a stroke is about two weeks. He is physically recovering quite well, but still struggling with language. He is, however, making pretty good progress in that department as well. I'll be headed back to Arkansas in a few weeks whenever he comes home. Doctors expect him to recover most of his skills/ability in time and he gets better each day, but it will be a long haul. Thanks again for the support and well wishes gents.
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