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  • Hawk55
    Hawk55 Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 846
    Cab, I don't want to sound insensitive (sp)... Thank God you found out before becoming overly committed--married. Learn from this and it will definitely be what God intended and not what you wanted. Sometimes we are too quick to accept things as "sent from God" when we so desperately feel we nned something. God tells us to be quiet and wait then we will truly know if it is from him. Good luck Bro. Be strong.
  • Hayblet
    Hayblet Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 2,400
    Hawk55:
    Cab, I don't want to sound insensitive (sp)... Thank God you found out before becoming overly committed--married. Learn from this and it will definitely be what God intended and not what you wanted. Sometimes we are too quick to accept things as "sent from God" when we so desperately feel we nned something. God tells us to be quiet and wait then we will truly know if it is from him. Good luck Bro. Be strong.
    I have to fully agree, I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop with my current love, and after reading this it really makes me worry that there is bound to be something wrong with the woman I love and hope to marry. I do wish you the best of luck Sr and hope you do truly find your soul-mate one day.
  • james40
    james40 Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 3,450
    Sorry to hear about this but as mentioned above, good thing you found out now. If you want some sticks, let me know. I have a couple I can send out now. Just shoot me a PM.
  • Schrooz
    Schrooz Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 165
    I don't know, man. You seemed to have broken off ties on a bad note. If it were me I would have begged off marriage on more amicable terms. That way you can be free and still have a 'booty call' when you fall on tough times...know what I mean?! ;)
  • These Filthy Hands
    These Filthy Hands Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 455
    These Filthy Hands:
    Congrats Cabi! Best of luck!!!
    Well, I'm a dumbass. I didn't read all the way through before I posted. Sorry about everything Cabi. Best of luck man. BTW, need a roommate?
  • cabinetmaker
    cabinetmaker Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 2,561
    These Filthy Hands:
    These Filthy Hands:
    Congrats Cabi! Best of luck!!!
    Well, I'm a dumbass. I didn't read all the way through before I posted. Sorry about everything Cabi. Best of luck man. BTW, need a roommate?
    Moving to texas? got a 3 bedroom place, come on down.
  • Sandman1am
    Sandman1am Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 2,567
    Cabi keep your head up and stay positive. I'm a believer that things happen for a reason. I hope you can find peace in this difficult time you are having.
  • Krieg
    Krieg Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 5,068
    Hayblet:
    Hawk55:
    Cab, I don't want to sound insensitive (sp)... Thank God you found out before becoming overly committed--married. Learn from this and it will definitely be what God intended and not what you wanted. Sometimes we are too quick to accept things as "sent from God" when we so desperately feel we nned something. God tells us to be quiet and wait then we will truly know if it is from him. Good luck Bro. Be strong.
    I have to fully agree, I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop with my current love, and after reading this it really makes me worry that there is bound to be something wrong with the woman I love and hope to marry. I do wish you the best of luck Sr and hope you do truly find your soul-mate one day.
    If you keep thinking negative, you probably will end up making it happen some how. My advice spence is just to let it go and concentrate on growing your relationship, if something does happen, just cross that bridge when u come to it, not worth fretting about something that might or might not happen.
  • Russ55
    Russ55 Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 2,762
    Krieg:
    Hayblet:
    Hawk55:
    Cab, I don't want to sound insensitive (sp)... Thank God you found out before becoming overly committed--married. Learn from this and it will definitely be what God intended and not what you wanted. Sometimes we are too quick to accept things as "sent from God" when we so desperately feel we nned something. God tells us to be quiet and wait then we will truly know if it is from him. Good luck Bro. Be strong.
    I have to fully agree, I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop with my current love, and after reading this it really makes me worry that there is bound to be something wrong with the woman I love and hope to marry. I do wish you the best of luck Sr and hope you do truly find your soul-mate one day.
    If you keep thinking negative, you probably will end up making it happen some how. My advice spence is just to let it go and concentrate on growing your relationship, if something does happen, just cross that bridge when u come to it, not worth fretting about something that might or might not happen.
    Besides, most of the time they don't show any of that stuff until AFTER you're married. =D
  • xmacro
    xmacro Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 3,402
    Sorry to hear about this Cabbie. But hey, at least you found out now, instead of after the marriage, so count your blessings. Sometimes God's greatest gifts are his unanswered prayers.

  • cabinetmaker
    cabinetmaker Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 2,561
    xmacro:
    Sorry to hear about this Cabbie. But hey, at least you found out now, instead of after the marriage, so count your blessings. Sometimes God's greatest gifts are his unanswered prayers.

    and the ones he answers no to.
  • cabinetmaker
    cabinetmaker Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 2,561
  • JCizzle
    JCizzle Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 1,910
    Sorry to hear this bro, I would have booted her ass out the front door.

    For now, welcome back to the unmarried, never been married club. :)

    Smoke away!
  • The Sniper
    The Sniper Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 3,910
    JCizzle:
    Sorry to hear this bro, I would have booted her ass out the front door.

    For now, welcome back to the unmarried, never been married club. :)

    Smoke away!
    Otherwise known as "The Thinking With The Right Head Club" LOL

  • Sandman1am
    Sandman1am Everyone, Registered Users Posts: 2,567
    The Sniper:
    JCizzle:
    Sorry to hear this bro, I would have booted her ass out the front door.

    For now, welcome back to the unmarried, never been married club. :)

    Smoke away!
    Otherwise known as "The Thinking With The Right Head Club" LOL

    Single life is cool but it sucks at times too.