So sorry to hear this JD.I will agree with all other postings you need to cut this cancer out of your life!! You have definitely done anything possible to help them> My grandfather used to say " Some people cant be saved,They need to be stopped" Hope you stay strong brother!! We are keepin you inour thoughts and prayers.
I'm sorry to hear this stuff JD. You are trying to do the right thing. You cannot protect people from themselves. junkies are not people they are junkies. I hope you can help the children.
Ugh, JD, sorry to hear this. My sister and her husband go through some of the same stuff with her step-daughter's biological mother. Unfortunately, in what I believe is meant to be the best for the kids, the system is skewed towards keeping the kids with their mother Best of luck to you, someday we will get it right and the system will do what is best for the kid on an individual basis. Luckily for my sister, the bio mother's lawyer conceded that he didn't have a case against why they should have custody and had them draft up a custody agreement where they have full custody and the mother has supervised visits over the summer and holidays. She rarely follows the rules and has not paid one dime of child support in 8 years, but the judge will not take away the visitation. The mother does not call or send cards or have any contact until visitation time. It's really sad. I'm not trying to bash the system either, I know a lot of people that work for CPS and the courts and they work very hard to keep kids in safe and loving environments, but they have to operate under the constructs they are provided with!! I know that there are cases where those guidelines work for the best too.
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